We like to deal with, or buy off, people we like. So who do we like, and who gets on our threepenny bits.
When it comes to doing business - Who annoys you most - People who:
· Would rather chat than get down to business
· Are too interested in facts and figures
· Are just too eager to do business – with no time for people
· Are looking for a deeper meaning to everything – want to know why about everything
Well, the answer to that question would be different for all of us.
Not surprisingly though, people in one group, will tend to annoy, offend, or upset people in one of the other groups.
So if we want to sell to, or hit it off with other people, then we must at least initially, try and match out energy and style with theirs.
This doesn’t mean that we abandon our sales process or more importantly, let the client lead the process, or we will just get dragged along behind them, never quite getting into our stride. But what we do is this. We initially match the price, style and energy with the client.
If they come in, and quietly ask you for some facts and figures, get your brochure out, and sit with them, and circle the relevant figures and facts.
If they come in and say – “It’s nice to see a bit of sunshine. I see they’ve still not finished the roadworks on Water Street yet”. Then don’t even think about talking of products or services, until you’ve asked them how far they’ve come, how many kids they’ve got and how long they’ve lived there and so on.
So what we’re doing is matching or mirroring them. And guess what happens – they like us. “Hey that Guy’s ok you know.” Then we can start slipping into our style and process after a few minutes - taking the client with us. We show we still understand the client by using phrases like (depending on the client type) –
Maybe - Oh I could chat all day – but I want to do a proper job for such a nice lady as you so I’ll just get a few facts off you......
Or perhaps – I know you’re a busy man but to save time in the long run, and to get it right first time – I’ll just need to.....
Or perhaps – I know getting the right specification is absolutely crucial, but let’s have a look a what the product can do for you – then if you like we can make sure it fits your spec.............
This really works - giving them a little time in their style – will gain their attention and respect.
Happy selling . If you are interested incoming to one of my sales seminars in your area please email me - Paul